I am a single mother of two children. When I was pregnant with my first, I knew I could do it – all alone. And I did. No problem. I got pregnant after her (twice), but aborted because I knew I couldn’t do right by them. A few years later, I got pregnant but couldn’t afford the abortion – which was a great thing! Ever since my son was born – I HAVE NOT REGRETTED HAVING HIM.
However, I got pregnant a few more times after this (BTW: ALL THE SAME MAN, hence the abortions cause he was … uninvolved in the daily necessities, if you will. Over a 7 year span). I aborted those children and in 2008 finally got a procedure done to ensure I had no more.
Did I have a lot of pregnancies but only two were born? Yes. Do I regret it? Yes – I’ve always wanted a large family. Do I know in my heart it was the right and best thing to do? YES.
Thankfully, God has provided me with a wonderful man with 6 children of his own. So … I got my large family, can provide for them and raise them right and proper.
No one can judge me BUT God and myself. I have to live with this. So … stay outta my uterus! LOL