I had been on and off with the same guy for 3 years, my family all hated him but I thought I was in love. Things changed when I found out I was pregnant, I was reassured by a friend that the worst was over and it was time to deal with it and tell him. When I sat him down and showed him the pregnancy test he told me all of the most terrible things that have happened to him in his life. When he finished he told me that THIS was the absolute worst, I was ruining his life. I took two weeks to think about what I wanted instead of what he wanted, I decided that being tied to a person who treated me so terribly wasn’t what I wanted. At the time I was 19 years old and going to college, I would have had no means to support this baby and I was not in the right frame of mind. Looking back at everything, I would have made this decision again in a heartbeat.