I was 21 with a 9 month old and a boyfriend who was a drug addict. He wasn’t there for our daughter and always put his habit before us….he couldn’t even hold a job.
Then. I found out I was pregnant. He would argue with me until I was bawling because I didn’t want to keep the pregnancy. So….12 weeks in, he disappeared with his habit for a couple days. I made the call and travelled a couple hours to get my abortion done. No matter what, I did want that child but I wasnt ready to be a single mom to two kids.
On the plus side, after telling him what i had done, my boyfriend finally got help and sobered up and is actually around for our daughter.