i had one kid already, he was maybe 14 months old. i was living with my mother in law, and i refer to it as “when i lived in hell”. she hated me, and i hated her right back. it was a horrible time to be pregnant.
when i told him i was pregnant, he said i had to have an abortion. i didn’t mind, because the last thing i wanted was another thing to keep me stuck in hell. i did mind when he gave her the money we had been saving for the abortion, making me have to reschedule it. i told him if he did that again we were having the baby, because it wasn’t something you could put off forever. (DUH!!) that was over 20 years ago, and i think about it once in a while, but never with regret. about four years ago, i took a friend to the same exact PP clinic for her abortion.