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Talking With TV: A Guide to Starting Dialogue With Youth
Channel 1: Talking With Teens
Positive communication between parents and children is essential. When
parents share their values with their children, children
can then define positive personal values, establish better peer and social
relationships
and develop healthy emotional and physical behaviors. When
parents exchange information and ideas with their children, children
gain self-esteem
and self-confidence, good decision-making skills and a healthy
attitude for the transition to adulthood.
Adolescents who don't have good
communication with their families or
don't feel supported by their parents are more likely to
have problems in school, use drugs and alcohol, and have
trouble with the law. Parental
hostility can block family problem-solving and negatively
affect parent-adolescent relationships. Self-restraint is
tied to interested and supportive parents,
while uncontrolled behavior is associated with harsh parental
discipline. Boys can turn to alcohol or drugs, both strongly
associated with early
sexual activity; girls may become depressed and more sexually
active.
Parents are the best educators of children. Young people also
say that parents are their preferred source of information, especially
on issues of sexuality, but school, friends, television, film, videos,
music books and magazines all compete for attention.
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