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Parent-Child Communication Basics: An Education Program to Enhance Parent-Child Communication Verbal | | Examples | S-1. Judging | Making a judgment | You should … You ought to … | S-2. Rejecting | Giving no support | It's your problem, not mine. | S-3. Blaming/Criticizing | Placing fault on the other person | It's your fault. | S-4. Labeling | Calling names or words that are negative | Only a dummy would do it that way. | S-5. Transferring | Not listening and jumping in with one's own problems | Let me tell you what happened to me. | S-6. Ordering | Giving solutions with no choices | You must do this now. | S-7. Threatening/Bribing | Using threats or bribes to try to make someone do something | If you don't do what I want … If you do what I want, I'll do this for you. | S-8. Waffling | Not being clear and consistent in setting limits | Well, maybe … We'll see … I'll think about it … | S-9. Nagging | Persistently repeating orders or requests | I've told you a thousand times … How many time do I have to ask you to … | Nonverbal | | Examples | S-10. Acting | Using body language that sends negative messages or that rebuffs; being physically abusive | Crossing arms; not looking at speaker; walking away; tapping feet; shaking finger in face; hitting; kicking |
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