Situations | Adult Responses (on white index cards) |
S-1. Mom, I'm not sure what to do about my class schedule this year. It's really tough with all the extras I've got to do. | R-1. You should take every math and science course offered. You ought to see how important that is. |
S-2. Dad, that boy just took my truck. | R-2. It's your problem. You solve it. |
S-3. Mom, the jar of glue just fell over on the floor. | R-3. Look what you did! The carpet is ruined! It's all your fault! |
S-4. Your 8-year-old got dressed for school—orange and blue shirt, green and yellow striped pants, red socks, sandals, and a baseball hat. | R-4. Only a clown would dress like that for school! |
S-5. Dad, it's not my fault my math teacher hates me. | R-5. Let me tell you about my boss. You think you've got trouble! |
S-6. I think I'll go to the movies tonight Mom. | R-6. You will not. You're going to stay home and study. You're going to bring your grades up. |
S-7. But Dad, it's the last night for "Star Wars," and I haven't seen it. | R-7. If you don't study, there will be no car this weekend. |
S-8. Mom, I really need to know if I can go to the concert on Saturday night. | R-8. We'll see—I'll think about it. |
S-9. I'll pick up the puzzle later Dad. | R-9. I'm not going to tell you again. I've told you ten times to pick it up. Now! |
S-10. Your child comes home from school, slams the door shut, drops his/her clothes on the floor, kicks the cabinet, and turns on the TV. | R-10. You frown, cross your arms, tap your foot, and stand in front of your child. |